You wanna know what cures this really quickly?
I was amazed at how naturally I segued from wife to single mom**, sole breadwinner, and the only person who was going to fight my way through beaurocratic red tape, no matter how unpleasant “customer service” tried to make my attempt. Because if I didn’t, no one would.
*Not an endorsement for the institution of divorce.
**also I’m the boss now. Yay!!