Yeah, I thought about that and then added the sidenote later, because I’m (totally) one of those people who uses habitual phrasing (like) all the time, and personally, I (soooo) don’t realize I’m doing it.

Also why I qualified with the “ it might be my peeps” statement. Because you, with the husband of strong, loosely held beliefs probably have a different experience than me, oh great attractor of the narcissistic personality.

(another side note: why, when I type 'loosely held' do I have to physically restrain myself from following with 'bowel movements '?)

It must be this side of 40 rearing her ugly head.