Why is it that in order to “help" men see that this is not about diminishing them; that it is a real and present problem that support groups for guys who “no girls will fuck", whose rapey ideologies run in the direction of “make all bitches pay", exist at all, we have to soften our verbiage and try not to sound too confrontational and basically demure to them to get them to even bother to try and hear us? I mean, look at you here. You speak with conviction and self-assuredness and 16 of 19 comments are men who are a)pissed off

about

b)an article they clearly didn’t bother reading

before

c)assuming whatever you’re blathering on about is bullshit

because

d)you’re a woman trying to discuss something about men

so

e)clearly you are not trying to inform, but rather to destroy.

because so many American men were raised to seek and destroy, not to enlighten and heal. So since they would, they assume you wll as well.

(btw I find the whole bullshit uncel ideology impossible to believe; what they’re mad about is that the girls they want to fuck won’t fuck them. They’re still considering themselves above fucking the “uglies” or the “fatties”. If an “ugly” girl tried to get with those guys, they would do the EXACT thing they’re so mad is being done to them and blow her off. which would be just fine.)

is the gap between us even salvageable anymore?

I still don’t know what I want to be when I grow up, but I know I want it to be spelled right and punctuated correctly. I guess that’s something.

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