When is the outset, exactly? Is it during dinner? Dessert? Dumpster nap?

So. .if she says she will let you insert your penis into her vagina over bloody Mary’s, then two hours and 10 drinks later when she passes out, it’s okay to go ahead and put that penis inside of her, asleep, through some sort of implied current consent based on consent she gave (by flirting? By straight up owning that is her hoped for outcome?) while she was still awake?

Are you honestly saying a woman shouldn’t be entitled to change her mind and expect to have that change honored; that, in fact, the act is consensual no matter what because it was consensual at some earlier point in time?

God, I better get more locks on my doors. I’ve had sex with like 30 guys in my 43 years. Since they now have a lifetime pass to my body because I gave them one AT THE OUTSET, who knows when they might come to collect.


I still don’t know what I want to be when I grow up, but I know I want it to be spelled right and punctuated correctly. I guess that’s something.

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