ut you, but I’m sick and tired of shouting men telling me — us — what’s real and what isn’t, dismissing our tales of assault as small and insignificant and unique to us, when the truth is that they’re a tsu…tag #notokay (read more about this movement here). Because they’re not. And I don’t know about you, but I’m sick and tired of shouting men telling me — us — what’s real and what isn’t, dismissing our tales of assault as small and insignificant and unique to us, when the truth is that they’re a tsunami — and one that we have the power to push back out to sea.