The only thing I was referring to with the words “not equal” was the comment directed at me stating that men, historically, have just as much of a reason to be fearful of retribution when they reject a woman’s advances ( or say no at all) as do women of men in the same circumstance. No. I do not believe that saying the two are equal carries with it any believable truth, and I backed that opinion up with evidence-based data.

Never did I mention other reasons for fear, or which gender felt fear more strongly, or pain in any context AT. ALL.