Thank you, Michelle. For the record, I only answered a question the OP posed, using my own experience and stating what I would/would not do if I found myself in her position. Sharing my experience with someone else is in no way accusing her of any wrongdoing or attacking her own choices/experience.

I sincerely apologize if anything I posted came across that way. I thought that was what she was looking for, but I may have misunderstood.


I still don’t know what I want to be when I grow up, but I know I want it to be spelled right and punctuated correctly. I guess that’s something.

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