Ooh, lucky her!

Maybe you just really don’t see it, but this comment illustrates the undercurrent of misogyny that peppers everything I’ve heard from you so far, and is the reason I made a point of calling out your hypermasculine air of superiority. Which of her actions are you not defining her by? Having sex with more than one man? And I’m assuming from an earlier comment you made that you are making an exception for her; most women with multiple children from different men are in some way damaged goods in your eyes. Here is where that hypocrisy shows up. Your wife took what you’ve said is the only correct action and carried out her pregnancies and STILL you feel compelled to “not think any less of her” for it .

Until you understand that your wife hasn’t taken any action she should have to be forgiven for, you will continue to totally miss the point.

I still don’t know what I want to be when I grow up, but I know I want it to be spelled right and punctuated correctly. I guess that’s something.

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