Oh, man, all my respect to you. Being a biological mother is hard enough. Being a stepmom…i can’t even imagine the strength that takes. Choosing to marry not just a man but a family.
That’s sturdy stuff.
My kids’ stepmother is a freaking warrior. Got not only the kids but my ex, who I wouldn’t wish on my worst enemy. Lol. She’s a better woman than I am, for sure. :)