I’ve tried to have this conversation with many men who agree with your position. I find the conversation is circular and goes nowhere. Because this is the wrong conversation. Discussing who has been more subjugated, or discriminated against, or oppressed, gets us nowhere. I concede that both genders have lost something vital in this war, and that it came as a direct result of the other gender having benefited.
You have completely missed my point. Those who are creating the bulk of the dissonance are the same ones who remain unchanged by the conversation.
But thanks for trying.