it’s so funny how you talk about being worried about how people were going to feel about what you said. because my decision not to link you was not something i came to lightly. I was afraid you’d see it as me mouthing off behind your back (even though i wasn’t saying anything bad), but I’d noticed how hard you were working at not engaging that thread anymore, and I didn’t want you to feel pulled into more of the discussion than you felt comfortable engaging.

i really worried about this and was very happy to hear from you today.


I still don’t know what I want to be when I grow up, but I know I want it to be spelled right and punctuated correctly. I guess that’s something.

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