Interesting that you say this.

Alexainie

Jun 26, 2016·1 min read

Interesting that you say this. It used to baffle me when my ex-husband (Narcissist 100%) would make a decision and even when it totally backfired on him or clearly was the wrong decision and he was given an opportunity to change his mind--like, NO ONE WOULD HAVE EVEN KNOWN BUT ME-- he would refuse. No matter how much better it would have made things for him ( or any of us) he would refuse.
I finally realized it was because to him, changing his mind was the same as admitting he was wrong, and he was never wrong.
Insane.
Same when he got caught in a lie. He would stand behind that lie if it killed him ( or us).
I don’t understand it.

Alexainie

I still don’t know what I want to be when I grow up, but I know I want it to be spelled right and punctuated correctly. I guess that’s something.

… change, that’s for sure. Part of it has to do with men not wanting to give an inch on this because that would mean they may have been wrong about their assumptions around women and sex. Thus, the “my head hurts” type of refusals around stuff that is in no way difficult.

Hi Alexainie. The million dollar question, isn’t it?

Allan Rae (alto)