I’m sorry, I didn’t mean to upset you. I just know that when it was me, I couldn’t imagine anything worse than what I felt. I know that from within, I lost the ability to see outside of my own pain.

I was not saying that you were making any assumptions. I was just trying to dispel any ideas you had about not being able to get through this, because you can. I apologize if it came across as an accusation. it was anything but that.

again, please understand that I am trying my best to be helpful to you but these are uncharted territories for me. I had someone i talked to when I was where you are but I have not really yet been in the other seat. please try to be patient as i try to navigate this.