I second Tre L. Loadholt , although I do it knowing that if I were outed here, the consequences could be devastating to my relationship with my mother, among others.
So, I feel you.
The one thing I did do was warn my mom that there were things here I’d written that she would not want to see. That has been enough to keep things quiet in my world.
I hope so much that you are not made to choose.
The world should always have you here.