I honestly don’t understand what you are even rambling about. You are attacking biological processes we have no control over. And you are pissed about something that cannot be changed.
What it seems like is that you feel like the scales were balanced when most women were strictly homemakers and men went to work…and you feel like it’s not fair that while women were “allowed” to enter the workforce, men weren’t given the ability to get pregnant. So we kept our previous “lucky” jobs of birthing and caring for babies AND worked full time jobs and poor dudes just got to have the job part, because they were unable to develop uteruses. So now women get to work AND carry the lions share of the household responsibilities and men don’t. And women can have a baby just by picking a stranger up in a bar but a man can’t get a child via an anonymous mother, without her knowledge.
Guess what? Life’s not fucking fair. You should maybe just get used to that.
We had to a long damned time ago.