HAHAHA my theory…no!!! I was just fumbling through trying to figure/reason out how it was supposed to work (because CLEARLY I walked into my marriage without knowing what a narcissist was, much less a LOVE LANGUAGE. But, I learned how to spell narcissist real fast.)
I do that when I write; figure things out as I go along. I realize now that my post sounded less like that than me trying to instruct you to return to your ex-husband and GOD DARN-IT DO IT THE RIGHT WAY THIS TIME!!!
That is not what I intended, it was middle of the night.
If you knew me, you’d know I don’t know any of the things. Not-a-one.