As I said before, it is appreciated, Miss Meg.

God, she is just going to ride this garbage forever? It is not like I was sneaky. I addressed her privately and was completely up front about my reasons and she acts like I led a coup to bulldoze her behind her back just to be a bitch.

Oh. Wait.

She’s projecting.

The old narc standard of Do as I say , not as I do.

My last narc relationship, he would always say, You’ll do this because I need you to.

And every shitty thing he did he did because he needed to do it.

That made it not only okay, but a necessity; no matter who it hurt. But I never once saw him consider another persons needs unless that directly benefited him.

Crazy how we can miss this stuff early on, isn’t it? Since the behavior becomes so glaringly obvious.

Danna is like that. She’s grabbing at the people who haven’t been here long enough to know better. But the rest of us are just freaking OVER IT.

As far as I’m concerned, if anyone reads the piece this all stemmed from and thinks, hey, freedom of speech and such, she can say whatever she wants to buuuutttt…anyone who got upset about it can’t say whatever they want to because, ruuuuude!

I can do without.

So if her plan is to turn people against the Borg and me, she can certainly have those people. I don’t need to gather a group of followers. Lol.

You are right, of course. I just wish she would go away. I’m about ready to myownself. Growl. ;-)

I still don’t know what I want to be when I grow up, but I know I want it to be spelled right and punctuated correctly. I guess that’s something.

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